Well so much has happened since my last update. Every day is so full packed with stuff…even on the lazy days. Since the Thai jungle…we were both mezmerized and saddened by Cambodia. Learning about the horrors of the Kumer Rough left R and I baffled and deeply sad. We toured a prison where Pol Pot’s army tourtured and held captive many and went to the Killing Fields outside of Phnom Penh to wittness massive, open graves, the trees they would beat children on, where they hung the loud speaker to drown out the screaming, the skulls with hatchet marks in them. It was a lot to take in…how could one man command so many to kill they own…in the late seventies..in such psychologically/physically brutal ways? Two million fell victim to this mass genocide in a mere four years. R and I could only say a small prayer because there is no comprehension of this, no explanation.
We were also able to experience beautiful splendor in Cambodia in Siem Reap where they infamous Angkor Wat temples are (you know…Tomb Raider???). I can’t explain how mystifying and gorgeous they were…old, sandsone rock carved intricately and covered in mystical mosses. Gigantic trees grew hrough many of the enormous structures.
We then made our way to Vietnam. Ohhh Vietnam…so hard to love at times
but I did learn a lot there and enjoyed it with at least the baseline love I have for all travel. We first went to the gorgeous, lesser known island Phu Quoc just south of the mainland. What a treat. We stayed in a little beach bumgalow RIGHT ON THE OCEAN (I kid you not…) for $17/night. The island has many dirt roads, cows roaming on deserted beaches, curious old fishing boats, and sandy, untouched beauty for miles. However, it won’t be long until they “pave paradise” as Vietnam is learning the tourist potential of Phu Quoc. When our flight to Ho Chi Min (Saigon) was delayed by two hours Vietnam Airlines (i.e. the government) groomed us by transporting us into the city for a huge, delicious, banquet lunch. R noted, “they must want tourists to come back!” At any rate, R and I took a moto (like a mow-ped) around the island throughout our stay. Two minutes out on the moto I acquired what I would learn later is an “Asian tatoo.” Due to both R and my fault the moto tipped and I burned the crap out of my right calf on the exhaust pipe. The relatively deep burn is about 3.5 inches long and 1.5 inches wide with a few other pieces of burnt flesh around it. It looks totally gross!!! It’s still pretty painful and I get bummed thinking about the scar I think it will make. I guess plenty of tourists (especially) have gotten them but I haven’t seen anyone else with one (I know my friend Ankit had one and another traver we met had one in the past). A Malaysian stopped me in a store yesterday and told me to try oil on it, don’t put antibiotic on it, and let it air out. So I’m currently trying that folk remedy with baby oil. Anyone else know how to treat an Asian tatoo???
Phu Quoc was lush and lovely…and gave us strength to encounter Ho Chi Min. The city is full of methods and madness and made my city girl heart sing again. We saw some (heh hem) “interesting” government propagated museums focused on the Vietnam War. I guess I will just say that it was quite uncomfortable being an American going through these…for several reasons…
So Ho Chi Min is a facinating, full of history place. Significantly, it’s one of the most difficult places in the world to cross the street. At some points you can look out onto a sea of 1,000’s of moto drivers. You basically have to cross half of the street at a time weaving in and out of moto’s/cars. You can’t be afraid and you can’t stop either! When we were set to leave Ho Chi Min a mass flood greeted us…at first it seemed a little crazy and exhilarating until all the cockroaches started coming up from the streets to find dry land. One got caught in my shoe as tons gathered under our Hostel entrance! It was definitely eek!
Also! I forgout about the rich and interesting Mekong Delta in Vietnam! We spend a few days exploring the fertile fishing/rice/vegetable land here…seeing how people lived in the boats and houses by the shore was really neat. Also the kids are so cute while waving wildly as your boat goes by.
Also notably, R and I try and find what we call a “Fear Factor” street in all the places we go. These streets are where people are preparing/eating/holding captive things we would not see in the states… For example in Thailand, there was a huge, encolsed tent area full of rows of dried fish skin…pig heads…raw meats…etc. In Phnom Penh we say tons of frogs in bags, live fish flopping around in bowls, big, black catfish scurring around in their holding vats, etc. Will write more later in the Vietnam FF streets later…
Now the Fear Factor stuff being said…we have had impeccable (and often cheap) food everywhere. Enjoyed the fa (spelling?), noodles in Vietnam and the Amok chilchen/fish curries in Cambodia. I bought some Amok spices and can’t wait to cook some up at home!
For now, we are in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia…it’s a very modern city yet we both felt a slight pang for the rougher places we’ve been. The rougher places are, well, rougher, but they have their own unique rewards. By the way, for those curious, we’ve been staying in places that cost us each $8-$9 on average per night…so nothin’ too fancy yet but I’m a hostel girl at heart anyway. We might splurge on something when we get to Bali.
Don’t wanna go home! Only a few weeks left though…at that
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Cheers to all!
July 25, 2008 at 4:29 am
OMG NK, do NOT put oil on it!!! That is about one of the worst things you can do for a burn. If you don’t have some sort of antibiotic ointment, use toothpaste. Toothpaste usually will take some of the burn on if applied immediately, but it should still help some. Oil will force the burn to settle in deeper and worse. The oil thing is an old very WRONG home rememdy, just like putting margarine/butter on it is.. both are oils.
As for Vietnamese food, I can recommend finding some Pho (pronounced kinda like fur without the R). It is really, really good, IMO, but be careful about what meats you do eat in Vietnam.. because they are not like Americans, the poorer eat what they can, including dog, and sometimes, not always, don’t clean things as well. I only know this because of some Vietnamese co-workers that emmigrated from there years ago. I really do want to visit all these places you have mentioned one day. Did you know that the Mekong River has some of the world’s largest catfish?!?! They can weigh over a hundred pounds! Isn’t that crazy?
July 28, 2008 at 11:51 pm
Ouch! The Asian Tattoo sounds really painful! Glad you’re okay. At least now you’re bringing some truth to the myth floating around the internet realm that you’re heavily tattooed!
I love living vicariously through your adventures! I read your post to M and now you have us seriously considering a honeymoon in Phu Quoc, although I think I’ll steer clear of the motos. Can’t wait to hear more from you!
August 4, 2008 at 8:49 am
Hi friends!! ARA YOU SAVED ME! I used oil for a day and my wound seemed to seep deeper into my skin…it was awful. I went back to Neosporin and it FINALLY closed up. Thanks again for your expert “pharmacy” advice!!!
August 8, 2008 at 4:41 am
OH…but if NK was home, she could be watching the hot temps in Texas.. instead she’s experiencing them in Asia lol. .. so wish I was in her shoes right now LOL
August 9, 2008 at 7:00 am
You are most welcome NK! I hope your trip is going great
We are all looking forward to pictures and stories
August 19, 2008 at 4:13 am
Thanks for sending me the link to the pictures NK. You and R look wonderfully happy. The pictures are AWESOME! Those are all the places I want to see one day. I know this sounds weird..I have never been out of out the USA except to Mexico for one day, but I swear #274 gives me this weird feeling of deja vu. It’s like I know that place.. ever had that before?
It is such a wonder to see things from a civilization long past. It makes me wonder if they were ever like we are now, wondering what we’ll leave behind for others to question. Things are so beautiful there. I want to see them for myself one day.. and the ruins of Europe and South/Central America too!
August 19, 2008 at 4:15 am
Why can’t places in the USA have such splendor and beauty?!? My parents say the most wonderous place to visit for them here is Mount Rushmore.
August 19, 2008 at 4:16 am
hehehe.. and the Faaaaa… if you look for it in a restuarant is Pho.. I LOVE that stuff
August 19, 2008 at 3:09 pm
Thanks, ara!!! And D, you just click the little contact/email icon somewhere on this page and then I will get your email. I’d be happy to send you my pics too. Ok you two don’t blow my super mysterious e-identity now though…:):) I have a GREAT story about an Indian/American wedding I attended and helped out with!!! I have to clear it by a friend first before I publish, and find some time (I’m currently transitioning jobs) to write it….there’s so much HOPE for those of us in intercultural relationships!!! So much good, positive stuff to report…yah!!!!
August 19, 2008 at 7:41 pm
I’m not seeing an icon — maybe because I don’t have a WordPress account? hmm…
Can’t wait to hear your wedding story, NK. I went to a wedding a few weeks ago for an Indian bride and a half Indian/half white groom. They only did a Hindu ceremony, and a lot of the groom’s non-Indian side of the family were dressed in saris and kurtas. It was nice to see.
August 19, 2008 at 7:43 pm
BTW, pho is awesome. I might have to go get some soon…
August 19, 2008 at 9:01 pm
Sweet, D. Actually, ara, how did you email me your email address? Can you let D know so I can show her the pics??
And OMG, I have a new latest blog obsession…
Awesomeness.
http://www.livingoprah.com/
August 20, 2008 at 3:45 am
Sure. I have a wordpress account. So when I log-in, I just went to comments from my page’s website toolbar. There I can see who posts comments and what email address they have set up in wordpress. That’s how I got it, and then I just emailed you from there.
No worries NK! Your identiy is safe with me LOL. I soooo love pho! My Vietnamese friends had told me about it, and then my co-workers husband is Vietnamese, and she is totally hooked on it. So I was convinced to try it, and bam, I am hooked
I liked it with the meatball type in it. I tried it with the all types in it the first time hehe. I do not care for tripe in it though.. not crazy about tripe hehe. But I really liked the plate of garnishes to put in my pho..that was awesome, plus with chili sauce hehe
August 29, 2008 at 7:52 pm
Pho is my favorite dish when I’m sick – absoultely the best thing ever. I don’t care for the meatball version – I prefer the type with lean brisket and flank (“regular” cuts of meat), but otherwise Ara is spot on for how to eat it. Yum.
NeoKalypso – can you convince Aditya that traveling in Southeast Asia would be fun? He says that, if we’re going to visiting a developing country, we might as well visit India, since we have family there and there’s tons of places he hasn’t seen. But I’ve always had a dream of seeing Thailand – the beaches, the mountains, the temples – and the food! Vietnam would also be wonderful.
September 3, 2008 at 2:00 am
GG: I will work on your request. India remains my favorite place in the world…if you see more of it before you see SE Asia, it will ruin every other place you visit. Nothing beats India bar none…